My family really does come first. It always did and always will.

There is a time where people thought I am a bad brother. Well, I am not really that bad though. Since small, I was very close with my twin sister because we usually play together. When we were on primary school, my sister came to me and told me someone bullied her. Yeah, a big brother's job was to find out who was that and teach her a great lesson. I gave her a good lesson for bullying my sister by disturbing her. She reported to her favorite teacher and her favorite teacher summon me to her class. I was made to stand on a chair in front of her class. Imagine every eyes looking at you laughing and especially that teacher that love that troublemaker kid. That's when my phobia toward helping my sister started. I don't bother to care or help my sister anymore after that incident. 

For few years, it's been this way and on the last year of high school. Things started to change. It takes some time to actually overcome it. For me, it was few years to even overcome it. And then another incident happen which goes like this;

Two dude were disturbing their female friend. That female friend happen to sit in front of my sister. That two dude were pushing the table of my sister. At that time, none of my friends came to school, only one of them came. And that dude has his friends all over the other classes. Looking at that situtaion, what would  you do as a brother? This is what I did. 

(Conversations are translated into English)
Me: Hoii! Why do you disturb my sister?  
Dude: What? What's your problem? 
Me: My sister said don't disturb her. So you better don't disturb her.
Dude: You wanna fight is it? *walked really close to me
Me: *pushed him away with my shoulder and took my watch out of my hand and wrapped it around my wrist and point it at that dude* Does your head worth RM500?  
Dude's friend: *trying to calm us down* Tan Zhi Yao, don't larh. Let's just get over it and pulled his friend to the next door. 

Pretty much I was entertaining my sisters and my friends because most of them were laughing when they heard, "Does your head worth RM500". Anyway, ever since the incident, nobody even dared to disturb my sister because they know that she has this big brother that would kick their ass. 

Besides that, I remembered clearly that was the last fight I had. I never wanted to get into any fight anymore because when that dude came close to me, do you guys even know what happen? His nose touches my nose!! And that was the most awkward shit I had done in my entire life. For a seconds, I thought I was a gay! 


We were once a small chubby kid.

Genting Highland 1997

Hawaii 2011

Meet my beautiful ladies :) 




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