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The Importance Of Family Life


A family unit is the unit which builds up a person's personality. How you behave and what you become in life is very much dependent on your family life. Psychologists believe that a child learns the most from his or her family life. The way your family members deal with you has a life long effect on your personality. Keeping in view all these facts the importance of your family life cannot be denied. Family unit happens to be the most important part of your life till you grow up. The children are usually closer to their parents and their siblings as compared to any other person in the world. as the children grow up they find good friends, spouses, their own kids and colleagues to share their lives with. Although time brings this change but the importance of family remains there. The children who have a sound family background and who belong to a family with strong family ties are almost always happier. Thus one cannot deny the importance of family life. 


The life with your family is very important it plays a major role in your development into the person you become. The goals you set it for yourself in your life are very much dependent on the life you have with your family. Those children who belong to the families which have a rich education background tend to learn more. They are interested to learning more and thus it is easy for their parents to get them educated. Similarly, for example, children who belong to a family from which a few of the people are in the field of professional sports, the kids tend to have an interest in sports and they also plan to go into the same field. The sons and daughters of stars from the film industries usually plan to follow the suit of their parents. Thus it is effect of your family life which guides you to decide what profession you want to do as an adult. 


Family life is also important in the sense that it gives you your basic strength as a person. The people who have a smooth and well settled family life are generally less scared of life. Those who are part of broken family are generally less confident. These people always expect the worst in life. Those who are a part of a broken family are generally less confident. These people always expect the worst in life. This is a general state of mind which results in building up of negative personality. Family life is also important to people as it is the part of our life which has more effect on us compared to any other part of our life. The way a mother treats her kids is actually the deciding factor of what those kids will be like as human beings when they grow up. 


As important as family life is, it is a big problem in the world of today where the family units are breaking up more often and the divorce rates have grown very high. The higher divorce rates result in more broken families that in turn lead to a lot more number of children who suffer through this insecurity in their early ages and as a result they are not that stable. These people tend to have a variety of fears and insecurity. They do not have the courage to face their life. As family life plays a very important role in shaping you as a person, lack of security in your family life makes you a bit unstable as a person. 


In today's world a big social problem is that the family unit is not being considered as important by the people as it used to be. In many parts of the world the time period for which people live together as a family is shrinking. The family life adds a sense of responsibility in your personality which lacks in those people who have not had a very nice family life. 

Taken on 2010.
When elder sister got back from Hawaii. 
Taken on  2011.
Sister's company annual dinner. 
Taken on 2011.
Family reunion when me and my twin sister returned from Hawaii. 
Taken on 2012.
Sending my twin sister off to Hawaii. 
Taken on 2012.
Family will always be together. 
Taken on 2012.
We look happy =] 
 Dear current/future parents,
 If you plan on having children, do your responsibility as a parents! NEVER think of divorce because of small matters! Because the one that is affected is not you but your children! You turn their life upside down! If you face difficulties, work things out together! There will always be a solution in life and never give up on them because they are the greatest creation from God to you!
Good luck! 
Kelvin Tan 

Source: http://www.grandmascraftguides.com/Family_Corner/

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